Marizanne Naested

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Expert Relationship- and Sexuality Counselling TRE® & Access Bars®

Expert Relationship- and Sexuality Counselling TRE® & Access Bars® Expert Relationship- and Sexuality Counselling TRE® & Access Bars® Expert Relationship- and Sexuality Counselling TRE® & Access Bars®


Linden, Johannesburg


Online, Worldwide

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Welcome - You're in the right place

I’m Marizanne Naested (Maz)


A Johannesburg-based, trauma-informed Sexuality and Relationship Counsellor offering counselling for individuals and couples in Linden, Johannesburg, as well as online in South Africa and worldwide. 


I work in English and Afrikaans, but I keep learning about cultural and human diversity and honour it deeply.

I support people navigating relationship difficulties, intimacy and sexuality concerns, stress, parenting and major life transitions. Whether you’re struggling to reconnect, feeling stuck in patterns that keep repeating, or finding that stress and past experiences are affecting your relationships, counselling can help you understand what is happening and create meaningful change.


As a certified Trauma Release Exercises® (TRE®) and Access Bars® practitioner, I combine talk-based counselling with body-based approaches that can support nervous-system regulation and emotional safety. My approach considers the whole person — including the biological, psychological, social, cultural and relational factors that shape how we experience ourselves, our sexuality and our relationships.

With professional training in Communication (Honours) and Sexology (cum laude), I bring together academic knowledge, counselling skills and real-life experience as a partner and parent.


You don’t have to be in crisis to seek counselling. 

You may simply know that something needs to change. 


Whether you want to strengthen your relationship, improve intimacy, work through sexuality concerns or feel more grounded in yourself, I offer a safe space for honest exploration and lasting growth.

I particularly enjoy working with professionals, couples and motivated individuals who are ready to engage meaningfully with themselves and their relationships.



Areas of Support:


  • Couples & relationship counselling
     
  • Sexuality concerns (low desire, painful sex, compulsive behaviour, sexual self-esteem, erectile difficulties, oncosexology etc.)
     
  • Parenting stress, medical stress, fertility challenges, birth & medical trauma
     
  • Communication breakdowns, conflict, pre-marital & divorce transitions
     
  • TRE® (Tension & Trauma Release Exercises) for stress, anxiety, and trauma recovery


  • Access Bars® to support relaxation, release limiting thoughts, and promote a sense of well-being.
     
  • Grief, loss, and emotional overwhelm
     

I work inclusively with all genders and orientations. Let’s begin where you are — and move forward, together.


Whatsapp for a booking:  +2764 534 7046

Full rates from 1 Jul 2026 

1 Hour: R950 

1.5 Hour: R1370 

2 Hours: R1820


Cancellations: Within 24 hours, R250 fee; Within 8 hours: Full fee due. (Online apps, see invoice for terms)


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I abide by the code of conduct of the Council for Sexual  Health Professions NPC and am a Category A member (25001) & the Association for Supportive Counsellors & Holistic Practitioners (ASCHP)

I am a member of the European Federation of Sexology (EFS)

I am a student member of the International Society for Sexual Medicine (ISSM)

I am a member of the Southern African Sexual Health Association (SASHA)

Who could benefit from a session with me?

If you are experiencing reactions that remind you of those in the lists below, feel free to discuss these with me and make a booking on whatsapp or email (below)

 

  • Chronic stress and burnout
  • Anxiety and panic attacks
  • Depression and emotional numbness
  • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Complex trauma (C-PTSD)
  • Childhood trauma and developmental trauma
  • Birth trauma (for both birthing parent and partner)
  • Chronic pain conditions (e.g., fibromyalgia, migraines, TMJ)
  • Autoimmune and inflammatory disorders
  • Sleep disturbances and insomnia 
  • Muscular tension and physical tightness
  • Somatic symptoms with no clear medical cause
  • Fatigue and exhaustion (including adrenal fatigue)
  • Vicarious trauma (e.g., therapists, healthcare workers)
  • Recovery from surgery or medical trauma
  • Emotional dysregulation or high reactivity
  • Disconnection from the body or dissociation
  • Support during grief, loss, or major life transitions
  • Nervous system dysregulation (e.g., hypervigilance, shutdown)
  • Parenting stress


 

💑 Relational & Couple Dynamics

  • Marital or long-term relationship conflict
  • Communication breakdown around intimacy or sexual needs
  • Mismatched libidos or sexual desire discrepancy
  • Emotional disconnection or relationship dissatisfaction
  • Infidelity, betrayal, or breaches of trust
  • Navigating open relationships, polyamory, or ethical non-monogamy
  • Relationship repair after trauma or crisis
     

💍 Pre-marital & Relationship Alignment

  • Premarital counseling with a focus on intimacy, values, and expectations
  • Discussing sexual compatibility and boundaries before long-term commitment
  • Navigating differing cultural or religious sexual norms in a relationship
  • Clarifying needs, boundaries, and emotional safety early on
     

🌿 Sexual Health & Function

  • Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, or delayed ejaculation
  • Vaginismus, dyspareunia (painful intercourse), or anorgasmia
  • Low or absent libido in any gender
  • Menopause- or postpartum-related sexual challenges
  • Sexual concerns related to chronic illness or disability
  • Hormonal or physical changes affecting sexual wellbeing
  • Sexual Self-esteem
     

🧠 Psychological & Emotional Aspects of Sexuality

  • Sexual trauma recovery and reclaiming sexual agency
  • Body image struggles and their impact on intimacy
  • Shame, guilt, or anxiety around sexual expression
  • Healing from religious or cultural sexual conditioning
  • Compulsive sexual behaviour or porn use concerns
  • Internalised homophobia, kink shame, or identity-related stress
     

🌈 Identity & Exploration

  • LGBTQIA+ support around sexuality and relationships
  • Gender identity exploration and the impact on intimacy
  • Support for clients exploring kink, BDSM, or non-traditional expressions of sexuality
     

🧩 Complex or Overlapping Issues

  • Intersection of trauma, attachment style, and sexual function
  • Family-of-origin patterns impacting current relationships
  • Navigating parenting and intimacy after children
  • Supporting couples where one partner is neurodivergent or chronically ill
  • Integrating somatic practices (like TRE) into sexological healing


I recommend a 90-minute first session if possible so we have enough time to explore what’s bringing you in, and start uncovering the deeper patterns behind it. This gives us a solid foundation to map out your healing journey together.

Before we meet, you’ll complete a detailed intake form to help us focus our time where it’s needed most.

My approach is warm, trauma-informed and practical. Real change takes commitment, which means practicing new skills more than just once or twice a month.


TRE Profile: https://treforafrica.com/listing/marizanne-naested/

Psychology Today Profile: https://www.psychologytoday.com/za/counselling/marizanne-naested-linden-gt/1506678


*For TRE® work, loose comfortable pants and a water bottle are suggested. 

*For counselling: bring a bottle of water - it assists grounding, especially when stressed. 


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